"Sarah" is a 20 year old college student who is dating a fellow student named "Brian" and states the given:

"My parents are divorced and I am worried that the similar thing will happen to me. I try really hard to make sure that Brian is happy, though my parents as well tried really hard. I keep arguing with Brian as he goes out at night and won't tell me where he is going or what he is doing. Brian tells me I am stupid and should just deal with it. I just keep feeling worse about how i try to manipulate and control him. I have dated at least three guys prior to Brian and have had the similar problem. I do not know what I want from a relationship. I think that is the problem

What therapeutic treatment goals are recognized in this case? What therapeutic treatment exercises would be helpful (recognize both behavioral and Gestalt exercises)?