What kinds of intimacy characterize your relationships? Answer the questions that follow as you think about your relationship with an important person in your life:

a. what is the level of physical intimacy in your relationship?
b. What intellectual intimacy do you share?
c. How emotionally intimate are you? Is your emotional intimacy deeper in some ways than in others?
d. What shared activities occupy an important role in this relationship?
e. has your intimacy level changed over time? If so, in what ways?

After answering these questions, ask yourself how satisfied you are with the amount of intimacy in this relationship. Identify any changes you would like to occur, and describe the steps you could take to make them happen.