I give up on the remeron... I been on it for over 3 weeks now and it has not helped me much... I see a new doctor for my insomnia and depression. The other doctor did not want to give me a higher dose of remeron... and all it was doing was making me hungry. She thought it would help with my insomnia... but it has not. I think I tried every anti-depressent out there. Hopefully this new doctor can solve my insomnia and depression issues. It's hard to be happy when my dad is dying and my husband works out of state and I hardly see him. Trying to stay strong but at night my thoughts get the best of me.