1. Who are the perpetrators of violence according to this speaker? and what does he believe are the causes of why men commit violence against women, girls, men or boys?

2. He explained that WE all tend to focus a lot of why women stay with abusive men or why she went to a bar or why she was wearing certain clothing? What point is the speaker trying to make about blaming the victim?

3. How would you explain in your own way what the speakers' definition of BYSTANDER effect on these issues of violence against both men and women? Don't repeat what he said! Tell me the best way you would explain it to someone else.

4. According to the speaker, who does he want ACTION from to end this type of violence, be specific?